Category: Adult Life & Everyday Chaos
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Kindle or Physical Books on Holiday? The Romance Reader’s Annual Dilemma
Every summer, usually about three days before I leave for holiday, I have the exact same conversation with myself. “Be sensible.” “Take the Kindle.” “It holds hundreds of books.” “Your suitcase will be lighter.” Five minutes later… I’m trying to figure out how to fit four paperbacks into the side pocket of my suitcase because…
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The Romance Book You Pack for Holiday Says More About You Than You Think
Packing for a holiday is stressful enough. You have to decide how many outfits you’ll actually wear (spoiler: probably half), whether you’ll need that extra pair of sandals (you won’t), and somehow convince yourself that this is finally the year you’ll pack light. Then comes the hardest decision of all. Which books are coming with…
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Have You Ever Read the Last Page First? Let’s Talk About It.
I’m about to ask a very personal question. Please answer honestly. Have you ever… peeked at the last page of a book before you finished it? No judgement. This is a safe space. Because if you’ve just quietly whispered, “Maybe…” I’d like you to know you’re in excellent company. Readers seem to fall into two…
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How to Tell You’re About to Read a Five-Star Romance (Before You Even Finish Chapter One)
Every romance reader knows this feeling. You open a new book with absolutely no expectations. Maybe it was recommended by a friend. Maybe you found it by accident. Maybe you bought it six months ago and only just remembered it existed while looking for something completely different. You read a few pages… and something clicks.…
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The Unwritten Rules Every Romance Reader Somehow Knows
Nobody teaches you how to be a romance reader. There isn’t a handbook. Nobody sits you down and says, “Welcome. Here are the rules.” And yet… after reading enough romance novels, we all start behaving in exactly the same way. It’s almost like joining a very cosy secret society where the membership fee is one…
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The Five Stages of Starting a New Romance Novel (We’ve All Been There)
There are two types of people in this world. People who say, “I’ll just read one chapter before bed.” And romance readers. Because we all know “one chapter” is less of a plan and more of a beautiful little lie we tell ourselves. It usually starts innocently enough. You’ve finished dinner, the dishes are done…
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Why We Keep Falling in Love With Fictional People (And Honestly, I’m Not Worried About It)
Let’s get something out of the way first. If you’ve ever closed a book, stared dramatically out of the window, sighed for absolutely no reason, and thought, “Well… now no real man will ever compare.” Welcome. Your membership card is in the post. Romance readers have been “falling in love” with fictional characters for generations.…
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What Your Favorite Romance Trope Says About You (According to Someone Who Has Definitely Overthought This)
Romance readers are fascinating people. Give ten of us the exact same book recommendation, and we’ll all ask completely different questions. “Is it enemies to lovers?” “Is there only one bed?” “How slow is the slow burn?” “Does he fall first?” “Please tell me nobody dies.” We’re all looking for different things, and I don’t…
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Your Comfort Person Isn’t Always the Love of Your Life (And That’s Perfectly Okay)
Let’s settle a debate that nobody asked for but somehow exists anyway. Who do you text first when something happens? Not necessarily something dramatic. Maybe you saw the world’s chonkiest pigeon. Maybe your boss finally approved your holiday. Maybe your washing machine has decided that today is the day it becomes an indoor fountain. Who…
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Why the Right Person Notices the Things Everyone Else Misses
You know what’s funny? We spend years wondering whether someone will notice if we lose ten pounds, get a new haircut, buy a nice dress, or finally learn how to do eyeliner without looking like we’ve just survived a minor electrical incident. Meanwhile, the people who end up changing our lives usually notice something completely…
Sonia M. Rompoti, MSc, Bsc 