Sonia M. Rompoti, MSc, Bsc

Alright, bestie, pull up a chair and grab your iced matcha, because it’s time to have a very serious, completely unhinged intervention. We are officially in the final stretch of Read-a-Romance Month, and our Kindle highlights are getting out of hand. It’s time to talk about the fictional men who have been ruining our real-life standards all summer: the book boyfriends.

Let’s be completely honest with ourselves. The romance book community has a very toxic—but highly entertaining—relationship with red flags. On BookTok, a billionaire stalker who tracks a heroine’s phone is just “showing initiative.” Meanwhile, a sweet, small-town baker who brings her croissants is a “cinnamon roll green flag.”

Where do we draw the line? To save us all some therapy bills, I’ve rounded up and ranked the five most popular types of summer book boyfriends by their flag colors. Let’s see where your favorite contemporary romance crush lands on the spectrum.

1. The Grumpy Small-Town Mechanic / Contractor

• The Flag: Neon Green.
• The Vibe: He growls at everyone else, but he carries her groceries, fixes her leaky sink without asking, and secretly listens to her favorite pop music in his truck. Small-town romance books are elite because these men are inherently useful. He might act like he hates the world, but his acts of service speak louder than words. If you love a low-drama, highly protective man who knows how to work with his hands, this is your ultimate green flag.

2. The Morally Grey Billionaire / Mafia Boss

• The Flag: Crimson Red (But honestly, crimson looks great on him).
• The Vibe: His favorite line is “Who did this to you?” and he has enough money to buy the publishing house just to print her favorite book. Look, in real life, a man with a secret security detail and a temper is a restraining order waiting to happen. But in a spicy romance book? It is premium, high-heat entertainment. We forgive the red flags because his loyalty to the heroine is absolute. He would burn the world down for her, and frankly, we like the heat.

3. The Sassy, Witty Competitor (Workplace Rivals)

• The Flag: Patterned / Chaotic Pink.
• The Vibe: He matches her energy line for line, sends her competitive calendar invites, and flirts by being an absolute menace. The enemies to lovers book boyfriend is a fan favorite because the banter is unmatched. He doesn’t want her to fail; he wants her to bring her A-game so they can rule the world together. The only red flag here is that he will tease her ruthlessly until she finally snaps and kisses him.

4. The “Fallen First” Best Friend’s Brother

• The Flag: Soft, Pastel Green.
• The Vibe: He has been secretly pining for her for five years, remembers how she takes her coffee, and secretly helps her from behind the scenes. This is the king of the slow burn romance genre. He respects her boundaries to a fault, which is both a massive green flag and an absolute torture mechanism for the reader who just wants them to get it on. He is safe, he is sweet, and when he finally breaks, the rewards are very high-heat.

5. The “Fake Fiancé” with a Hidden Agenda

• The Flag: Yellow (Proceed with caution).
• The Vibe: He enters a contract with her for PR reasons, but he’s secretly been obsessed with her since day one. The fake dating trope boyfriend is a master of the boundary blur. He pretends to hold her waist for the cameras a little too tightly and buys her an engagement ring that costs more than a house. The flag is yellow because he’s a liar—but he’s a liar who is desperately trying to trick her into loving him back, so we allow it.

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Frequently Asked Questions (FAQ)

What is a “Cinnamon Roll” book boyfriend?
A cinnamon roll is a term used by the romance book community to describe a hero who is genuinely sweet, supportive, kind, and completely soft for the heroine. He is the ultimate green flag (think: a golden retriever in human form).

Why do romance readers love “Morally Grey” heroes so much?
Because fiction is a safe space to explore high-stakes, intense emotions! A morally grey hero provides the thrill of danger and protective forced proximity without any real-world consequences.

Where can I find unique book boyfriends that aren’t mainstream?
Skip the traditional publishing charts and read indie romance authors. Indie authors write much more diverse, witty, and uniquely chaotic heroes who have much sharper banter and way more spicy romance chemistry.

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Which flag color are you running toward this month? Save this post to look back at when you need a new read, and share it to your stories to expose your bestie’s questionable taste in men!