Sonia M. Rompoti, MSc, bsc

As a solo mother and a freelance writer, the upcoming year presents a unique set of resolutions for me. My goal is to harmonize my professional aspirations with the joys and challenges of parenthood. This personal journey is not just about achieving a work-life balance but about thriving in both roles.

Understanding My Challenges

Freelancing offers me the flexibility I cherish as a parent, but it also brings unpredictability and requires self-discipline. Parenthood, especially as a solo mother, adds layers of responsibility, making the balance even more delicate.

Setting My Goals

This year, my goals are deeply personal. Professionally, I aim to grow my freelance career, diversifying into new writing niches while maintaining a steady stream of projects.

As a mother, I am committed to being present and engaged in my child’s life, ensuring we share daily quality time together.

Managing Time with Care

Time management will be my cornerstone. I plan to structure my days to maximize productivity during work hours when my baby is at school, and dedicate evenings and weekends to family. This involves meticulous planning and the willingness to adapt when unexpected family needs arise.

We all know how difficult it is to say no to more income and prestigious projects, but this year, I need to learn to balance my professional and personal life.

Creating a Workspace That Works for Us

My home office is not just a workspace; it’s a part of our home. I intend to make it a space that reflects both my professional needs and the warmth of our family life. Maybe I could do research close to my baby while she is doing homework; this way, I can continue working and being around her if she needs my help.

Building and Relying on My Support Network

I am grateful for my support network of fellow freelancers, friends, and family members. Their advice, shared experiences, and emotional support are invaluable.

Learning to Balance ‘Yes’ and ‘No’

As a freelancer, I’ve learned the power of saying no. This year, I will be even more selective with my projects, ensuring they align with my personal and professional goals.

Embracing the Flexibility of Freelancing

Flexibility is freelancing’s greatest gift. I plan to continue to use this to attend school events, care for my child when needed, and enjoy the precious moments of parenthood.

Prioritizing Self-Care

Self-care is often overlooked in the hustle of freelancing and parenting. This year, I’m committing to taking care of myself — because a happy, healthy mother is the best gift I can give my child.

Reflecting on the Journey Ahead: Personal Thoughts and Aspirations

As I stand on the brink of this new year, I am filled with a sense of hopeful anticipation. This journey of balancing my freelance career with my role as a solo parent is deeply personal and resonates with the core of who I am. I want to share some final, heartfelt thoughts as I embark on this resolution.

Embracing the Uncertainty

The path ahead is uncharted, and that’s both exhilarating and daunting. Freelancing, by its nature, is unpredictable, and parenting is a journey that continually evolves. I embrace this uncertainty, knowing it brings opportunities for growth and learning.

The Strength of Vulnerability

In this journey, I recognize the strength that lies in vulnerability. Sharing my struggles and triumphs, both as a freelancer and a mother, is not just about personal catharsis; it’s about connecting with others who walk similar paths. I believe our stories can inspire and support each other.

The Joy in the Little Moments

Amidst deadlines and schedules, I remind myself to cherish the small, everyday moments with my child. The morning cuddles, the bedtime stories, the laughter, and even the inevitable challenges are what make this journey so incredibly rewarding.

A Vision for the Future

Looking ahead, my vision is to build a life where my professional achievements and my role as a mother are not just in balance, but are mutually enriching. I see a future where the lessons I learn in one role enhance my experiences in the other.

Gratitude for the Present

I am profoundly grateful for where I am today. Yes, there are challenges, but there is also immense joy and fulfillment in both my work and my role as a parent. This gratitude grounds me and gives me strength.

A Message to Fellow Parent-Freelancers

To those who share this dual path of freelancing and parenting, know that you are not alone. Our journeys are unique, but we share common challenges and joys. Let’s support and inspire each other as we navigate these roles.

Closing Thoughts

As I step into this new year, my heart is full of hope and determination. I am ready to face the challenges and embrace the joys that come with balancing my career and my role as a parent. This journey is not just about achieving goals but about living a life full of purpose, love, and fulfillment.